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I love you but I'm not ready to marry you

“I’m Not Ready For Marriage”…What He Really Means

Have you ever heard that before? I love you, but I’m just not ready to get married yet. What the heck does that mean anyway? In your mind, if he loves you marriage is the natural next step, right? It’s like the old kid song… “First comes love, then comes… Read More

Why Men Pull Away

Why Men Pull Away

We men are simple creatures. We love our women and if we are in love with you, our number one goal is pleasing you. However we can’t reasonably do that which we don’t know how to do. Sometimes things need to be spelled out for us. Sometimes they even need… Read More

Commitment Phobe

Commitment Phobe? Warning Signs Of a Commitment Phobic Man

Often if you are feeling like your man doesn’t want to take your relationship to the next level, you wind up taking that to mean he’s (gasp!) a commitment phobe that doesn’t know how to be in a real relationship. However that’s not always the case and it could be… Read More

Intimacy in a Relationship

Intimacy in a Relationship – Why Good Sex Necessarily Doesn’t Spell Love

OK so it’s happened. You met a guy you’re mad about, and decided to bite the bullet and have sex. The sex was mind-blowing, you both had a fabulous time, and now you’re even crazier about him than before! In your mind you’ve just reached a milestone in your relationship… Read More

Giving Him Space

Giving a Man Some Space Can Be a Good Thing

“Huh? C’mon TDub, what’s this “space” you speak of? We like each other. We want to spend every single minute together.” I get it. I really do. Is He Feeling Smothered? Men needing space is among one of the most common relationship issues. You meet a special… Read More

Why Ultimatums In Relationships Don't Work With Men

Ultimatums – Why They Just Don’t Work With Men

As I say in Girl Gets Ring – “No good relationship ever started with an ultimatum”! Unfortunately you wouldn’t believe how many people still think an ultimatum will get them what they want. Sometimes people use ultimatums thinking that it will build a stronger relationship or,… Read More